Thursday, May 07, 2009
Church weddings-survival guide
It was important for us to have a church wedding. And my us I mean my family and me. My husband on the other hand was rather cold to the idea. However we decided to go through with it and to establish ourselves as husband and wife before god. The ceremony needed to be booked in advance at our local church and costs (!) 45 dollars. Much to our amazement two wedding were allowed to go on at the same time. The prerequisite to the ceremony is that you have to be already married by the city council in order for the church to marry you. There is also a long list of must have's consisting of: candles, icons, towels, hankerchiefs and a special cloak you stand on as husband and wife. The icons you hold as the priest blesses your marriages must remain hangin in your bedroom through out yourlife, reminding you of the promises you have made before god.
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I agree about having a marriage before God.
ReplyDeleteHmmm, by the way was there any hassle about you being a virgin as well as wearing a vail for the church ceremony?
in the bedroom? hmm, my mind has wondered off to the idea of having sex in front of the sad eyes of the virgin mary. did they say it HAD to be the bedroom?
ReplyDeleteya it has to be in the bedroom...lesha had the same concern that you did Dash, no wonder you are related :)
ReplyDeleteThe corned where you hang the icons is called the red corner, basically its the first corned you see when you enter the room, and tats where they are supposed to hang!
i rememberrr the church...no one told me that i 1: have to hold the crown
ReplyDelete2: have to hold it for half an hour
3: HAVE TO BE FREAKIN TALL
4: have to walk at some point! actually that was the shocker...walkin. suddenly..i was thinkin WHERE IS EVERYONE GOINNNNN
it was nice tho. stn different for sure!!:)
he he
ReplyDeletewell u must remember stepping on my veil too :)
U did a great job, you must have been very tired though!
Great job still!
Thanks cynt